Statistically men over the age of 30 have a surge in sexual desire during the springtime that is not matched by any other season. Perhaps it has something to do with males innate desire to procreate and pass their seed to females in order to produce offspring. Of course with modern medicine and the modern world no-one needs to breed as extensively as generations before with infantile death being in the miniscule. Outside of that, settling down is not something all men in their early 30 want nor need to do in this modern world. Fifty years old is the new middle age and having kids in your 30’s and settling down with a wife just isn’t necessary. But the innate feelings to get it on are still there so what are we supposed to do with all this spunk? Not to be crass about it, I don’t want it to sound like I think we’re all just machine men that need to ejaculate in to a hole- we’re much more complex than that!
What I am trying to say is that we have these natural urges that take us in to a bit of a fever in the spring time. Not only do we have impulses to have sexual intercourse but we crave intimacy, physical touch and companionship. This natural flare up in guys during the spring is probably why nationally more couples get together in this month than in any other. It is in the summer months that statistically most relationships break down. I mean with all that heat and stuff to do, having a partner in crime can feel more like your carrying around a lead pillow in the sunnier months. But let’s not think about that yet! Let’s get excited about spring…
Now I’ve been giving it a lot of thought, you see; this year I’ve decided I really don’t want to fall in to the same old trap of listening to my brooding feelings and getting myself wrapped up in to a relationship I know I’m not ready for just to control these urges I can’t control. Which is why this year: 2019, I have decided to find an alternative therapy for my annual intimacy fix. (Now before you start I know that makes me sound a bit like a robot but what I mean is more than ever, this year, I feel myself. I know what I want to achieve, I know want I want to achieve and I know what I can achieve. This year the focus is on me and making myself the best version of me I can be.
After spending the last three months in therapy I have learnt some pretty cool things. One of those things was that I am happiest and the most content in myself when I focus on what I want I do not distracted in going along with others plans and not getting bogged down in make someone else happy. 2019 is the year I release myself from the shackles of striving to make everyone else happy and instead focus on my needs. I have spent too many years learning what other people like that I have never fully understood what I like.
I am referring to a lot of elements in my life with this, anything from music to fashion… what can I say; I’m easily influenced! But this is also true for sex. When making love- or having sex- with previous partners I have gotten so hung up in whether they are satisfied and enjoying it that I have failed to concentrate on my own pleasure and achieving my own orgasmic journeys. I’m telling you this because I want to explain why or rather how, I got in to body to body massage and why I think you- my dear friend- should get in to erotic massage yourself this spring.
Firstly, when you get an erotic massage, any style really (but my favourite style is body to body,) you are treated to the complete attention of your masseuse. It’s not about her, it’s about you. This might go against the grain of what you are used to- you want to think about the other but you will never learn about your own desires and needs if you do this. Besides with erotic massage you are paying for the service, your masseuse is essentially performing for you… it puts you in a total different mind-set about the sensual experience, and honestly it can be a very big turn on.
Allowing the masseuse to spend time rubbing your body and massaging your muscles will give you time to relax and think about where you experience the most pleasure- where feels good and where does not. The slow building of sensual pleasure you experience during a body to body massage means that by the time you do release you experience orgasmic pleasure more powerful than you will have experienced before. It’s a transcendent experience it really is.
Not only does it give you time to concentrate on your body and your pleasure portals but it allows you to fulfil your rampant spring sexual urges and concentrate on the stuff you really care about- like how to get a big fat bonus! Am I right?
So this spring, don’t get in a tiz making a tinder profile go and get your needs the professional way…Getting a body to body massage is just a phone call away.