Lingam massage is an ancient massage style that was created to give men pleasure. Despite its archaic roots, it is regarded as distasteful, taboo and sleazy in modern society. However, despite what people may think, lingam massage isn’t an expensive hand job- it is a skilful massage style that is designed to unlock sensations of every kind. Don’t believe us? Well read on and see why lingam massage is understated marvel.
It has a history
‘Lingam’ is the Sanskrit word for ‘penis’, which is where style had its name derived from. For more than thousands of years, the lingam has stood as a symbol for fertility and masculinity. It was honoured, worshipped and celebrated in temples; and still celebrated in different ways today. For centuries, phallic statues were erected in tantric temples where monks attempted to mimic the male ejaculation by pouring milk over them. Believe it or not, this is still practiced now in India.
However, in western culture nowadays, the lingam isn’t as sacred as it used to be. It is viewed as only a means to pleasure- but the depth of the lingam goes far beyond that. The lingam is responsible for creation; it enables growth of people right across the world. Lingam massage aims to bring appreciation back to the lingam. Men should be made to feel special and powerful- because that is what lies rooted in masculinity. The lingam massage is the ultimate style for a man searching for both pleasure and an ego boost.
It’s not just about a ‘happy ending’
Although lingam massage falls into the oriental category, it doesn’t revolve around happy endings. In fact, this isn’t the aim of the massage at all. While Happy Ending Massage does work towards and orgasm, lingam massage uses specific techniques in order to induce pleasure gradually over the course of the massage. In many cases nowadays, sex is rushed. It seems to be a competition to see who can go ‘the fastest’ and ‘the hardest’- however, this doesn’t necessarily feel good. Like a lot of fine wines or cheeses, pleasure is best served distilled. Like many things, it needs time to mature and develop in order to be as great as its potential. Lingam massage is not just a hand job because it takes a much slower approach to pleasure. Trained experts do not focus solely on the lingam- they start by relaxing and gently arousing their clients through non-sexual bodily touch. Slowly, they progress to the erogenous areas (neck, inner thighs etc.), and then finally tend to the Lingam. Whether you reach orgasm or not is up to you and your body- but Lingam massage goes far beyond that.
It requires preparation
Believe it or not, lingam massages take time- both before and during the session itself. As with most Oriental/Asian style massages, sound preparation determines the outcome of the massage. In order to experience undisturbed, full body pleasure, clients need to be relaxed into a state of euphoric- an almost outer body trance. This allows clients to let go of any stress and anxiety, making pleasure
more refined. In order to do this, most masseuses start by asking clients to take a shower. Warm water relaxes the muscles as well as the mind, and is a fantastic start to a massage. Next, candles are lighted across the room to provide warming lighting. Intense, spotlight rays of light can be distracting and make people more alert. However, this should not be the case during a lingam massage. Following this, massage therapists start by performing a full body, traditional massage which is not sexual in nature. This helps clients who are perhaps nervous to relax, making the session more enjoyable.
It requires skill
Very few people are trained to perform lingam massages- and it’s not difficult to see why. In order to become a qualified expert, massage therapists need to undergo long, intense training. Think you’re ‘good in bed’ is not the same thing. Lingam massage techniques do not just consist of straight-forward up-and- down motions; they incorporate complex movements in order to give pleasure. Some of these masterful techniques are as follows:
The Corkscrew – The corkscrew is a simple yet effective technique used by most lingam experts. Masseuse wrap their hands around the shaft of the lingam and slide is gently up the down in a twisting movement. Alternation, grip and speed vary depending on the preference of the client.
Thumb Strokes – The thumb strokes technique is slight in practice, but can drive clients wild. Masseuses hold onto the middle of the lingam and rest their fingers on it. They then proceed by gently sliding their thumb up and down the shaft several times.
The Fire Starter – Obviously there is no fire involved in this technique, but it certainly can ignite arousal, that’s for sure. Using the palm of their hands, masseuses hold onto the lingam facing upwards, and then gently move their hands up and down the shaft. Ever started a fire before by twisting a stick? It’s a similar movement- but masseuses are for more gentle and slow, and always
use plenty of lubricant.
Prostate massage – This is a sensitive and taboo area for a lot of men, but it doesn’t have to be. The prostate is located between the anus and bladder, and is walnut-sized ball that is bursting with senses. Most masseuses will only proceed with a prostate massage after seeking permission from clients; but if you’ve never tried it before, you should really give it a go. Using plenty of lubricant and sometimes gloves, masseuses start by inserting a finger into the anus until they are able to locate the prostate. They then start to gently rub, massage and apply pressure to the prostate which is notoriously and intensely pleasurable. Known as the ‘sacred spot’, the prostate is regarded as the male G-spot- the area of a man’s sexual anatomy which is most sensitive. Whilst prostate massages
can be slightly uncomfortable at first, they really are the gateway to toe-curling pleasure. This is the Shangri-La of lingam massage techniques.
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